Saturday, March 31, 2012

Who Are You and What Are You?

Christian Marriage Gone Wild? What could this possibly mean, and do I even want to know? I figure you are either thinking two things...this is a blog about weird fetish stuff and Christians or are laughing because what can be wild about a Christian marriage.

Well for now, it's about the latter...kind of. It's actually about debunking the idea that Christian marriages, and Christian sex lives have to be boring. No where in the Bible does it tell women that we are only allowed to use one position and that we must be silent about what we desire as well. Over time, Christian women have gotten a bad rap. Being celibate till marriage does not mean that once in that marriage things can't a little crazy. But what is happening is the weird about sex that we have BEFORE marriage, has some how carried over to our marriage. We can't pretend that sex isn't important. You've met a man right? Sex is very important to a marriage. No, it's not the only thing, but let's be real it's a big thing.

One of the top 10 reasons (#5 in fact) people get divorced is over sex. One person wants it too much, on person doesn't want it all, difference on what they think is "ok", etc. And if you are a Christian woman, who do you discuss this with? Most don't want their friends to know what is going on, and who wants to talk to their mom about their sex life?!? And as far as asking questions? Forget it! And that is where Christian Marriage Gone Wild came from.

I am a happily married Christian woman with three kiddos and a very loving husband. We have a very active and imaginative intimate life, and thankfully my husband is support of what I'm trying to do here. I want woman to know this can be fun. It can be enjoyable for both of you. And most importantly it doesn't have to be a chore! One of the greatest things we are given in marriage is physical intimacy. It is a time to connect. It's a time to share your vulnerability. And it's a time to have fun that you two share together, and it's just for the two of you.

So here is what I'm offering. A listening ear. Confidentiality. Information. And even some products to help you along your way. As of right now, I'm not charging for "appointments". I am offering 30 minute sessions of chat time. If you find it embarrassing and want to chat via MSN Messenger, Facebook, or Google Talk we can do that. If you want to Skype we can do that. If you want to meet face to face, we can do that. My goal here is to help make happy husbands and wives.

If you are interested my email is christianmarriagewild@gmail.com. And continue to stop by my blog, after all, no one knows what you read :)